Sunday, June 17, 2007

Relationships: Coping with Difficult People

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John Maxwell


2 Samuel 21:1-14

Every leader faces difficult people and draining circumstances. The following difficult personality types commonly accost leaders today:

TYPE STRATEGY
The Sherman Tank: rides over people Consider the issue; stand up if important.
The Space Cadet: lives in another world Find and develop their unique gifts.
The Volcano: explosive, unpredictable Remove from crowd, listen, be direct.
The Thumb Sucker: self-pity, pouts Don't reward, expose them to real trouble.
The Wet Blanket: always down Be honest, don't cater; don't let them lead.
The Garbage Collector: attracts the worst Challenge their statements; force honesty
The User: demands lots of time, energy Set boundaries; require accountability.

The Gibeonites became one of David's difficult people. Answer the following questions about how David chose to deal with them:

  1. Why did God send the famine and the Gibeonites to David (vv. 1,2)?
  2. How far should the leader go to satisfy the complaints of a critic (vv. 3,4)?
  3. Did David go too far in trying to appease the Gibeonites or Rizpah (vv. 5-15)?

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